"O You who believe!
Have taqwa with Allah, and be among the truthful." (Surat al-
Tawbah:119)
Many people understand truthfulness to
mean truthfulness of the tongue through speech alone. In reality,
truthfulness is a vast curriculum. It is as much one of the
characteristics of the Muslim's personality both outward and inward, as
it is his speech and action. From it are the following:
A. Truthfulness in
conveying the Religion:
That is, one must profess the correct
belief built upon truthfulness with Allah Azza wa Jall, not upon
hypocrisy, deceit and patronization. This is why truthfulness is
mentioned in the Quran as the opposite of hypocrisy.
"That Allah may reward the truthful for their
truth, and punish the hypocrites if He wills, or turn mercifully towards
them..." (Surat al-Ahzaab:64). Therefore, it is
necessary to posses the outward Islam with the inward Imaan; it is
necessary to have the correct belief in Allah, the Last Day, the Angels,
the Books, and the Messengers. The outward guidance must conform to the
inward guidance.
Here, is one of the hidden plots of
shaytaan who inspires the daa'iya to neglect some of the outward good
deeds under the pretense that his inner reality is not the same. So he
avoids this in order to avoid deceiving the people! This is a huge
mistake. The good deed which you perform outwardly is so because of the
righteousness and truthfulness in your heart as long as you do not do it
for riyaa' [show], reputation or in order to deceive the believers.
B. Truthfulness in
speech:
Truthfulness in speech expresses a
dignified personality, manhood, insight and generosity. No one would
resort to lies unless he has a wicked nature, a wicked nafs [self], and
a weak personality. A good-natured individual denounces lie and rebukes
it, which is why all of the [previous revelations] agreed upon the
prohibition and admonition of lie. How about the daai'ya then, can you
imagine him lying!? I believe not, inshaa Allah. Some of the daai'yas
may come across ambiguously by making certain statements which some
people misunderstand, then later they may find out the opposite of what
they misunderstood. Then they accuse him of lying. Besides, ambiguity
may lead to the acceptance of some minor lies under the pretense that it
is helpful!! So be cautious!
If you are in a situation that would
cause you to lie, avoid doing so, and remember the words of Abu Sufyaan
before Heracles when he was asked about the Messenger of Allah (pbuh)
and he [latter narrated to Muhammad (pbuh)], "I swear by Allah, if I was
sure that they would not have transmitted a lie from me, I would have
lied about you." [Bukhari] This man, who was an idolater at the time,
avoided lying out of fear that his lying would be transmitted, or that
he would be insulted some day because of it. Re avoided lying even
though he needed to do so. We know that the honor of today's duaat [pl.
of daai'iya] has become a target for a barrage of arrows, and this is
why it is necessary for the daa'iya to close the door before the foul
wind comes in, so that he can be safe!
C. Truthfulness in
deeds:
Meaning that a person's deeds have to be
purely for Allah Ta'ala without riyaa' or seeking good
reputation, "Whoever hopes to meet his Lord, he
should do good deeds, and not join any one in the worship of His Lord."
and "...that He may try you; which of you is the
best in deeds." (Surat alKahf:11 and Mulk:2) Fudail bin Ayaad
commented that, "Which one of you is the best in deeds" means 'most
sincere and pertinent.' He was asked, "O father of Ah! What is most
sincere and pertinent?" He said, "If the deed is sincere and not
pertinent it won't be accepted, and if it is pertinent and not sincere,
it won't be accepted. It will not be accepted until it is sincere and
pertinent!". Included among the subject of truthfulness in deeds is,
possessing clarity and avoiding obscurity or ambiguity. It was reported
upon the authority of Abu Dawud and Nisaa'ee that after a confrontation
with a man, when the companions refrained from standing up for him
(pbuh) he rebuked them, so they said, "O Messenger of Allah, we don't
know what is in your nafs, couldn't you signal us with your eye?" He
(pbuh) said, "It is not becoming of a Prophet that he have a
deceiving eye!!" [Abu Dawud, Nisaa'ee, Hakim, Ahmad from the
hadeeth of Anas in which it is, "A Prophet does not wink."]
Tirmidhi reported that 'Abdullah bin Salaam, may Allah be pleased with
him, said "When the Prophet, (pbuh), came to Madina the people came out
and said, 'The Messenger of Allah has come! The Messenger of Allah has
come! The Messenger of Allah has come!' So I came forward among the
people to look at him (pbuh), and when I beheld his face I knew that his
face wasn't the face of a liar. And the first thing that he (pbuh) said
was, "O People! Spread the salaam, and serve the food, and pray
while the people are asleep, you will enter Jannah peacefully." [Ahmad,
Tirmidhi and Ibn Majah.] The truthfulness of the Messenger of
Allah (pbuh) spread from his heart to his tongue...to the extremities,
it became manifest in his honorable face...(pbuh). Everyone who beheld
his bright vision saw truthfulness and was assured that his face was
absolutely not the face of a liar!! We are in need for the type
of duaat who transmit truthfulness with their speech and deeds so much
so that truthfulness becomes a natural disposition swimming through
their veins, emerging through their outward behavior, so that when the
people see them they say, "These are not the faces of liars!" We are
also in need of duaat who are beautified with moral excellence, who stay
away from selfishness and agitation, who persevere through their
tranquility, who are moderate in their manner of speaking in all
circumstances in such a way that the people are able to look at their
characteristics and say, "These are the characteristics of Prophets!".
Surely truthfulness in carrying our
dawa is a cause for people to accept our religion, and we should not be
like the actor on the stage who shows the people the opposite of what he
really is. In this case, the reality of such a daa'iya is quickly
revealed and the people rush away from him.
It was reported that
one of the Salaf [pious predecessors] used to affect people and bring
them to tears while admonishing them, to the point that you could hear
them crying loudly. Yet someone else may have given a better speech in
the same gathering and may have been more knowledgeable, but he could
not affect their hearts nor bring them to tears! So his son asked him
about this one day and his response was, "The weeping of the mother who
lost her beloved is not like the weeping of the one who is paid to do
so."
Therefore the first
mean for the success of the daai'ya is: His truthfulness in carrying his
dawa, his seriousness in it and truthfulness in words and deeds must be
his method and characteristic of him. Elegant sweet words are not most
important - even if they are required - more important is truthfulness,
that he is in harmony with himself, and his speech comes from the heart.
Long ago it was said:
"If a word comes from the heart it
will land in the heart... and if it comes from the tongue it will not
even pass the ears!!"
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