From the very beginning, women have
played vital roles in the propagation of the fundamental truths of Islamic da'wah. From
the sacrifices of Sumayyah, to the collected Ahadeeth of Aisha, women have been
instrumental in the flourishing and spreading of this deen (religion). Unfortunately
during these times, the Islamic revival suffers from weaknesses in its properly qualified
personnel, which limits its spreading and restricts the da'wah work to an elite group of
activists, with finite and limited efforts of da'wah and tarbiyah (education) being
focused on women.
Da'wah amongst women deserves, and should
get, far more attention than it does. So far, except in a few instances, women have been
distanced from the field of da'wah work. If we look at the reality, and the situation of
Islamic da'wah work, and the position of women in it today, we can easily find the
following problems:
1- Deficiency in da'wah capabilities
among and by women.
2- The ill use of existing
limited-resources in combination with a lack of personal initiative on the part of women.
3- A neglect or omission of women's
issues in the planning of Islamic da'wah.
4- Absence of strong tarbiyah and the
lack of fundamental Islamic knowledge in the da'iyat (female callers) in the field of
da'wah. Only a few of the wives and daughters of dou'at (male callers) have any worthwhile
Islamic knowledge.
5- Most women do not possess a proper
understanding of the role of da'wah made incumbent on their husbands. Because of this,
they may not understand the importance of time given to projects outside the home, which
in turn, may become a source of tension within the home.
6- The level of general Islamic knowledge
among most women is low.
7- Women's da'wah programs, as well as
overall da'wah programs and institutions are rare and not well organized.
Roots of the Problem:
Many obstacles
and restraints have been the causes behind the weakness and neglect of da'wah work amongst
women. Once they have been recognized and analyzed, viable solutions can be sought and
implemented.
One major reason, is that many men are
not convinced about the importance of women's role and responsibilities in the field of
da'wah. The Qur'anic verse "...remain at your homes..." [33:33]
has been misinterpreted by many, and so has the right of stewardship or Qawama. In many
instances we see men objecting to women's participation in da'wah and thus preventing them
from fulfilling their role toward their fellow Muslims and to the larger society in
general. Spreading Islam has been made incumbent on all Muslims, men and women.
"It is vital that husbands encourage
their wives to participate in da'wah work," said Dr. Aisha Hamdan, Director of the
Islamic Education Foundation, based in Minneapolis, Minnesota. She has a Ph. D. in
Clinical Psychology with a specialty in child and family issues. She teaches at a private
university in the Twin Cities. The IEF is a two-year-old organization, with one of its
goals being to increase the level of awareness and to provide training in giving da'wah,
amongst Muslim women and men. "They should encourage them to spread the message of
this deen, perhaps by taking them along when they go out, and by instructing them on the
proper ways of giving presentations about Islam."
A more particular reason is the absence
or confusion of priorities in the minds of dou'at. Many of them have been overwhelmed and
distracted by the state of the Ummah, even to the extent of ignoring to give proper
attention to their homes and families. Their energies having been exhausted in the work
outside the home, leaving them with nothing left for their families. This imbalance hurts
not only the families, but also the community as a whole.
The level of women's education and
awareness of their position and responsibility plays an important role.
A Desired Role for the
Muslim Women:
A crucial role:
The reasons women's participation is
important are various and diverse:
1. Women are more capable than men are in
communicating with other women. Women are usually more affected by word, deed, and conduct
of other women, more so than by men. Women are more capable of recognizing the
particularities and problems associated with women's education and tarbiyah.
2. Women can better comprehend the
direction in which women's da'wah work should be geared. They can best discern the order
of priorities, because they are more familiar with this sphere.
3. Women are more free than men in
communicating with other women, either individually for da'wah activities, or in women's
learning and other forums and places of meeting.
4. Many Muslim women who are in need of
guidance, education, and direction lack the presence of men-folk who can provide this
service, therefore it makes sense that qualified women in the community should offer this.
5. The educational and the tarbiyah need
of women are greater than that of men. They get pregnant, give birth, and nurse children.
The children are more tied to them than they are to their fathers. Women stay at home with
their sons and daughters, and thus can bring them up as they please. If they are not
allowed to share in the da'wah efforts of their husbands, a lot of the much-needed results
may not be attained.
6. Women have a great effect on their
husbands. If they have strong emaan and character, they have a very good chance at helping
their husbands become strong as well.
7. Women have a lot of characteristics
that stress the importance of their da'wah role. They should also be taken into account
whenever any da'wah work is planned. Some are:
* Women have the innate ability to
communicate strongly what they believe to be true in their hearts. Dr. Hamdan also points
out that, "Women are also generally stronger in terms of verbal abilities and
emotionality."
* Women sometimes lack will power and a
sense of direction, and therefore need the assistance of other women to give strength and
motivation.
A definite role:
The work of the Muslim woman in the field
of da'wah strengthens the man's work, and expands it into areas where her effectiveness
supersedes that of the man. The woman's role does not end at door. She can be greatly
effective by being a good example to others, by being good-hearted, kindly spoken, and of
friendly conduct. She can offer assistance, and share concerns as well as joys. She can
also use all appropriate opportunities to educate, guide and call others though observing
the conditions of those whom she addresses.
Examples are needed:
Women, who understood their role, started
educating themselves and achieving their rights to education and tarbiyah. Look at the
hadeeth narrated by Abu Saeed that a women said to the Prophet, sallallaahu alayhee wa
sallam, "The men are keeping you busy and we do not get enough attention from you.
Would you specify a day for us, women? He promised them a day to meet them and educate and
admonish them." (Bukhari) The fruits of this understanding and concern by the women
companions of the Prophet, (pbuh), and the attention he gave them, are shining examples
and a source of pride for Muslim women.
Muslim women played a great role in
sacrifice and service for the religion of Allah. Sumayyah gave up her life when Abu Jahl
killed her for becoming a Muslim. She was the first Muslim, and woman, killed in Islam.
Khadijah, the first wife of the Prophet, who was very rich, spent of her money to support
the da'wah. Umm Salamah left her husband and saw her children persecuted when she
migrated. Umm Imarah fought in defense of the Prophet, (pbuh), in the Uhud battle. Tending
the wounded in battles was the role Muslim Women played throughout history.
Building Successful
Dawah Programs:
There are conditions that must be met for
women's da'wah work to succeed and achieve its expected outcome:
First: important
guidelines:
There are important points that should be
used as guidelines when planning or doing da'wah work:
1- Typically, the woman's main rand job
is at home. This is clearly stated in Qur'an and Hadeeth. Allah says, "And stay
in your houses." [33:33] Of course women can go out for Salah in the Masjid,
participate in any other activities she may need and to do da'wah. However, none of these
activities should conflict with her essential duties at home as wife and mother.
2- There are special injunctions
regarding women, and the mixing of men and women, that must be observed in any da'wah
activity and under any circumstances:
a) Proper Hijaab between men and women
must be observed at all times.
b) Woman cannot travel without a male
companion who is her mahram (her husband or a man with whom marriage is unlawful).
c) Woman cannot intermix freely with men
who are not directly related to her.
d) Women cannot exit from their homes
except by permission of those who are in charge of them and care for them, i.e. their
husbands or fathers.
3- The enemies of Islam usually exploit
these injunctions and use them to defame Islam as demeaning to women. Some dou'at get
affected by these allegations and they are thereby led to be lax and unmindful. The true
dou'at guided by the Sunnah must watch out, lest they be affected by the lusts and whims
of society.
4- Men have the original right in da'wah
activities to take the lead as was the case in the age at the Prophet, (pbuh), and the
excellent generations that followed. Women's role in da'wah work is undeniable, provided
the appropriate guidelines are adhered to.
Second: Objectives of
the program:
Any da'wah program directed towards women
should strive to, at least, serve the following ends:
Strengthening
the emaan: This comes about by increasing worship, remembrance of Allah
(thikr), and reflection on Allah's names, and His power and creation in ourselves and in
the universe. There is great power in reflection. And its positive impact on one's heart
and emaan is almost limitless. This however, would not be possible without the inculcation
of the right understanding of certain issues related to our aqeedah; the emphasis has to
be on Tawheed.
Increasing
knowledge: Without it one cannot achieve much. Special emphasis has to be put
on the basics of Islam and on subjects that the da'iyah needs in her environments.
Knowledge should be spread about deviant thoughts, ideas, groups and sects. Awareness must
be raised concerning those who do not like to see the spreading of Islam and who are
gaining grounds in the hearts and minds of people.
Building of the da'wah
personality: Da'wah requires sacrifices and therefore women must be prepared to
bear the burdens of calling to Islam. This comes through awakening them to the conditions
of the Muslims and the endeavors of the enemies of Islam. Leadership, responsibility and
individual initiative should be taught. Theoretical and practical educational faculties
must be nurtured. The da'iyah must be taught the necessary social skills and the
importance of da'wah through good example and conduct. They also must be taught the value
of time, its management and how to use halaal fun activity during their times of leisure.
Building up immunity
to sin: This includes recognizing the ills of sins, particularly those
relating to women, and blocking the way to them by shunning the means leading to them and
the places where they exist.
Third: Training:
A- On the theoretical side of this
step, preparation may need to consider these aspects:
Educational preparation through
providing a good presentation of appropriates materials.
Psychological preparation by ensuring
that the women callers have faith in Allah, sincerity, hopefulness, coverage in truth,
pride in Islam, patience, and knowledge of the conditions and environments of those they
are addressing.
Social preparation by having the women
da'iyat live an Islamic life in the family and society in a practical application of
Islam. They should abide by the ethics of Islam and of the da'wah.
B- Adequate practical training and
preparation is a must:
This involves training female callers in
speaking and writing to be able to bring Allah's religion to the people through speeches,
lessons, lectures, and writing.
Writing and publishing must not be
neglected in an age when people are easily reached by and engrossed in all sorts of books,
booklets, newspapers, and articles. Writings should both be eloquent and convincing,
through sincere, sound and documented arguments. Writing is the form of da'wah which is in
many ways one of the most appropriate and important means for women. They can write at
home and thus make use of their spare time. They can in this way reach all classes of
society.
Areas of Da'wah for
Women:
The
educational field: These are related to the ennoblement of the spirit and the
purification of the soul through faith. The minds and souls can thus be touched. These
fields are to be found in mosques, schools, associations, da'wah groups, and others.
The social
field: These relate to bodily and psychological health as well as to social
development and interaction between people that reflect positively on the realization of
spiritual education and the formation of Muslim character.
Both sides, spiritual and physical, are
tied together and they should both be fulfilled in balance. To give the upper hand to the
soul would be asceticism, and to the body would be hedonism. Fulfilling the physical needs
has often been cause for many people embracing the guidance of Islam. Preachers of
Christianity today, concentrate on this approach. It is difficult for the hungry, the
naked, or the sick and homeless to listen to sermons.
More specific examples of what women can
take part in as da'wah are:
1. The Home:
This is surely the most fertile and most effective channel. Allah has ordained both
husbands and wives as nurtures for each other and the family. The mother shares with the
father the responsibilities of educating and nurturing in all physical, moral,
psychological, social, and external aspects each other and their children. Members of the
family are gathered together in the home for many hours and this creates harmony among
them as well as affords an opportunity for presenting good examples and guidance.
2. The Muslim
Community: Charity, advice, and direction can be offered to relatives,
neighbors, and the needy.
3. The Islamic
School: Educational activities and curriculums can be used for the guidance of
girl students as well as women teachers and staff.
4. The Masjid:
Women should be allowed to go to the masajid to benefit from the lessons held there. The
Masjid is a suitable place for some of the women activities like Qur'an study groups and
other training.
5. Hospitals,
Prisons, and Social Welfare Institutions, Women's Colleges or Universities:
"Women-only conferences can also be incorporated into already scheduled major
conferences, thus providing them with someone to travel with,"
What We Sow We Reap:
1. Banishing ignorance, increasing
intellectual broad-mindedness, and the creation of qualified women da'wah cadres. These
results have a lasting and beneficial influence, not only on women and the Muslim
community, but also on the whole society at large.
2. Rectifying conduct and restitution of
many erroneous practices that have come to be social phenomenon in many societies.
3. Da'iyat will develop maturity and show
more disciplined characters. This in turn will result in stronger relationships between
men and women.
4. Women's place and status in Islam
would be highlighted and Muslim women would attain a better awareness of their rights and
duties.
5. Efforts would be geared toward the
cultivating of our young people, in order to ensure the Ummah, virtuous Muslims in the
generations to come.
6. A sense of belonging to Islam would be
fostered, and the key Muslim rite of enjoining good and forbidding the evil would be
upheld.
7. An important financial tributary for
da'wah work would be secured; i.e., women's charitable spending.
It is time that Muslims who profess to
follow the Sunnah rethink the issue of dawah among women and by women. We should
remember Khadijah, Aisha, Sumayyah, and many Muslim women throughout our history, and what
they did for Islam and learn from it. We also have to realize that mere talk and
emotionalism are useless. We need to do something about our immediate situation now.
Education, preparation, and qualification of women will be the key to our future success.
Throughout history, the yardstick used to measure the well being of any society has been
the condition of its women. Let us therefore, strive to improve the intellectual,
spiritual and emotional condition of the Muslim woman by allowing her to fulfill all the
God-given abilities and responsibilities made incumbent on her. |